Gaia Chinniah from Soul 33 has created a relationship forecast for September through November 2021. Image supplied.
Relationships are the most asked about topic in my line of work. Many ask if they are with the right person, if they will meet someone and when they will meet someone. While everyone’s relationship soul blueprint is unique, spiritually there are many factors that come into play when looking at someone’s relationship history and future. The information that I derive for relationship guidance is through my meditation practice, communication with my spirit guides and what I see happening with my clients during their one on one sessions. There are always themes that the Universe delivers for us to focus on, which I am very good at hearing and seeing.
Whether you are single or in a relationship there are supporting Universal energies which encourage a certain focus around your relationships. There are some key focus points over the coming months for you to consider if you are single, available or have a status of ‘it’s complicated’. When we work with the Universal energies, we can go with the flow rather than bringing about more resistance than necessary.
SINGLES
What you need to know
When we are dating or looking for a relationship, there is usually some sort of ‘strategy’ that is considered. How we behave on a date, how we communicate with another on an app, how long we wait to text back, the usual overthinking that goes into being available… but not too available to avoid being too eager. It can be a headache figuring out the rulebook! You may have created certain rules around the timing of communication, or you may have initially been dating or chatting with a few different people to test the waters and see who is out there for you. Something to remember over the next couple of months is being clear on what your strategy is, a type of boundaries based on ‘do unto others as you would have them do unto you’. If you don’t want the other person to be seeing more than one person or you would like another to be more responsive, then you should also act and communicate accordingly. Be a mirror of what you would want to bring in. Making decisions around your dating strategy will help you be clear on what circumstances you are trying to create and who you want to attract in a romantic way. Being ethical will help you step into your truth and bring in someone with the same levels of respect you have for yourself. Be aware of the standards you have for yourself as we often will say things but are not internally aligned to receive them.
What you need to do
There may be some good opportunities to connect with people coming up. As we move into spring the weather and our mood starts to change. We begin to warm up to the thought of planting seeds for the growth of a relationship. What you need to do is to act on your strategy. Plenty of times we have plans and thoughts of how we would like to do things, but the energy extends to planting the seeds and actually doing it. Place yourself in situations where you will be able to connect with people, this may also be online, what this energy is encouraging is to reconnect with people you know. This is not about getting back with an ex. it is about looking within your circle for someone who knows someone. Start seeding and reviewing who you know and expressing to them that you’re wanting to meet someone. You never know where a referral will come from so take action!
What you need to heal
What you need to heal is your judgement of self and of others, doubting yourself is a big one here. The internal alignment comes in to focus also, knowing that who you are attracting and how they are behaving may be based on what you are unconsciously or consciously projecting. As always, when we are single and want someone, there are usually obstacles that we cause ourselves that sabotage our ability to bring someone in. These can be defense mechanisms of sorts, protecting ourselves, perhaps being defensive when the heart longs for someone to love and for that love to be reciprocated. This is also an aspect of judgement because it stems from unworthiness. This is where meditation comes in to help you become more aware of what is presenting to you in your physical life. Being spiritually aware will give you the ability to see how judgement can be an obstacle but once you work on healing that, you will start to see people in a new light, perhaps someone catches your eye that may not be your usual type but is perfectly imperfect for you.
COUPLES
What you need to know
All relationships are different and in general we all have ups and downs with our partners. What you need to know if you are in a relationship is to take some time to revisit the past, these are happy memories or points in time where you have really connected or had a wonderful time together. As we know, those joyful memories are what helps us hold on to relationships during the more challenging time. Mercury goes into Retrograde from the end of September till mid-October and this time looking back to review positive things will help bring a positive energy to your relationship, especially at a time when Mercury can cause some miscommunication between people. If you are in a new relationship or a more mature one, creating positive memories over this time will be a great opportunity if you need to fill the memories jar. This does not mean extravagant trips but creative, small gestures that are memorable.
What you need to do
Don’t worry too much if you are finding that things are not ‘progressing’, this seeding time over spring needs some nurturing. It’s not that your relationship is not progressing, it is just that we need to sow the seeds and recultivate what is there. Focus on what is good and from there you can make progress when there is momentum after mid-October.
What you need to heal
We all need to heal ourselves in our relationships as hurt, resentment and let downs can accumulate causing energetic damage to ourselves and to the energy of the relationship. There are times in relationships where we can feel like giving up and the reason is usually because of uncertainty or accumulated disappointment. It is true that not all relationships withstand the test of time but all of them come in for a reason. If you are in a relationship and you want to give it a good go, be resilient and clear with your communication – suppression or overreacting is not going to help. If your needs are not being met and you feel like giving up, you can consider enlisting external help to see if the foundation of your relationship can be healed.
For more guidance specific to each week through September to November, download the Soul33 app from your App store. There you’ll find Gaia’s Monday Mantra podcast where Gaia feels in to the energies giving guidance on how to navigate the week ahead (available on both the Free and full version of the app). Full members also have access to a wide range of meditations to help you heal and move through specific challenges, blocks in your life or when needing a boost of inner strength and guidance. And Gaia provides homework for those who wish to follow the weekly exercises which use the current energy to heal, align and manifest as well as an inclusive chat group with like minded community members.
Profile: Gaia is an internationally known healer, medium and spiritual coach. She founded Soul 33 a healing company and the modality of Soul Progression Therapy ® when she had an awakening at the age of 33. She channels messages from spirit guides, uses energy healing and is able to speak to your soul and see your past lives. She sees your soul blueprint. She reminds you who you are in a very practical way. Gaia has a Masters in Management Studies, is a Reiki Master and has a qualification from Omega Institute New York in Past Life Regression Therapy. She has a product distribution company in Asia to fulfil her business desires and she lives her life wanting to be the best that she can be. She has created a spiritual guidance app and is the founder of Spiritual Health Magazine to help others understand the journey. To find out more about Gaia visit soul33.com. For her spiritual guidance app search ‘Soul33’ on your app stores.
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