Gaia Chinniah has released her relationships forecast for December 2021 – January 2022. Image by Abhi Chinniah; Ramii Studio.
Relationships are the most asked about topic in my line of work. Many ask if they are with the right person, if they will meet someone and when they will meet someone. While everyone’s relationship soul blueprint is unique, spiritually there are many factors that come into play when looking at someone’s relationship history and future. The information that I derive for relationship guidance is through my meditation practice, communication with my spirit guides and what I see happening with my clients during their one on one sessions. There are always themes that the Universe delivers for us to focus on, which I am very good at hearing and seeing.
Whether you are single or in a relationship there are supporting Universal energies which encourage a certain focus around your relationships. There are some key focus points over the coming months for you to consider if you are single, available or have a status of ‘it’s complicated’. When we work with the Universal energies, we can go with the flow rather than bringing about more resistance than necessary.
Singles
What you need to know
Over the summer months we can often be faced with the realities of being single. Humans tend to compare what they have with other people. This is very common when we want a relationship and everyone else around us seems to be in one and appears to be moving forward, doing things together. We will often ask ourselves what we are doing wrong to not be in the same position. Is there something wrong with me? When will it be my turn? What you need to remember is that everything has a time in life, if feelings of worry and isolation come up remind yourself that your time will come!
What you need to do
The great thing about this summer is the energy is elevated for new relationships to come in and the polarity in thoughts of being on your own will be met with opportunity if you learn how to appease yourself quickly from any thoughts of lack around your relationship status. Think about the benefits of being single and how someone else could add value to the amazing life you have created from being grateful for what you have. Take control over your thinking, putting yourself in a position to meet someone. Be empowered with your love life, as part of it is patience and the other part is faith in action.
What you need to heal
The healing that comes in around the summer months is what lies between the polarity of the energy in terms of comparison to other couples, self- doubt and opportunity.
What is it that you see in other couples that you would like? Use this information to know what you want. How much do you value yourself to know that you are enough? This is an important question as you are being made aware of whether you are looking for someone who will like you or someone who is be right for you. What opportunity are you creating to put yourself in a position to meet someone?
Your healing lies in knowing why you compare, and you may see that there is some self-worth that you need to build confidence around. This is the foundation of what you are taking into 2022 with you. Make it strong and informed!
Couples
What you need to know
It’s a really great few months for couples this summer. The weather and circumstances will have you feeling more emotionally balanced and supported and you will be able to have more compassion for your partner. Do things that will fill the emotional cup of your relationship to balance any stress from the year gone.
It is true that this time of year, couples may see incompatibilities through the year gone and if that is you, you want to ask yourself and your partner if balance can be restored.
What you need to do
Spend some time evaluating what the predominant emotions have been within your relationship this year. Your annual mental or journaled report. We can sweep so many emotions under the carpet just to cope at the time, but they can take a toll to the confidence of the relationship if the energy is not balanced out. How will filling your cup create more confidence in the relationship? We can lose confidence in the relationship over time and what you need to do over these months is boost the confidence in your partner. This year many haven’t had the capacity to hold another up as it’s been challenging enough to hold ourselves up and the confidence you are building is showing your partner why you chose them. This is not necessarily by praise but by being aware of what your needs are and how to bring them out in your partner in a way that makes them confident that they can actually meet your needs. Often people think pointing out flaws help but it’s being grateful and building on what they already do for you which builds their confidence.
If your relationship is not working out you may want to apply the above to see if your decision to transition out of the relationship is really what you want.
What you need to heal
The healing aspect of your relationship is actually a very positive energy in terms of seeing all the potential that is within your relationship. What is still to come! Use your freewill to give yourself the support to decide and communicate about any limitations or restrictions that have been placed on the relationship from commitments or fear this year. Your healing will come from having some fun together and planning for 2022. You’re bringing back the free spirit, the confidence you had in the beginning to invest in this relationship in the first place – something brought you together. What was it?
You might want to consider doing a love languages quiz online and reminding yourself how you both communicate.
If you are struggling to move past the fear or any resentment within you relationship, ask yourself if this is what you want long term. It’s time to make some foundational changes and being honest with yourself first before approaching it in the relationship will give you some clarity on whether your relationship can grow from its current position.
For those who are seeking a little extra guidance over the summer months, head over to The Beacon by Soul33 App where Gaia provides guidance for the week ahead via her Monday Mantra podcast, with optional homework, guided meditations and more to take you deeper. The full members access contains an extensive library of meditations listed under categories including Relationships, Self-Love, Affirmations, Calm & Rest and many more, providing app users with a toolkit at their fingertips to help them investigate, uncover, relax into and navigate their daily life and relationship challenges, and life’s big questions. (Available on both Apple and Android – Search ‘Soul33’ in your App store, free lite version with full access membership just $50 per year).
Profile: Gaia is an internationally known healer, medium and spiritual coach. She founded Soul 33 a healing company and the modality of Soul Progression Therapy ® when she had an awakening at the age of 33. She channels messages from spirit guides, uses energy healing and is able to speak to your soul and see your past lives. She sees your soul blueprint. She reminds you who you are in a very practical way. Gaia has a Masters in Management Studies, is a Reiki Master and has a qualification from Omega Institute New York in Past Life Regression Therapy. She has a product distribution company in Asia to fulfil her business desires and she lives her life wanting to be the best that she can be. She has created a spiritual guidance app and is the founder of Spiritual Health Magazine to help others understand the journey. To find out more about Gaia visit soul33.com. For her spiritual guidance app search ‘Soul33’ on your app stores.